04 June 2008

peacefully heartbroken

Loren William Ashcraft
1919-2008

grandad passed away yesterday at about 11:30am.
he was released from his suffering
and was reunited with grandma.
what a joyful reunion that must have been!

when my mom's dad passed away, she described her feelings by saying she was "peacefully heartbroken." i think that sums it up fairly well. we are all peacefully heartbroken - sad that our time on earth with grandad is over, but thrilled with the knowledge that we will see him again, and we are all at peace.

i arrived at grandad's house shortly after his passing, and for about a half hour sat with my great aunt lila in grandad's room, talking and reminiscing with her. we both commented on how incredible the feeling in the room was - the spirit was definitely present. at one point, we commented on the great reunion of grandad and grandma, and all of the other loved ones who would have greeted him. aunt lila laughed and said, "oh i'm so jealous. they are having a party without me." it was the sweetest thing.

grandad was a great man. still is. one of the greatest. he is such a phenomenal example to all of us and he will be missed. however, in our peacefully heartbroken state, our sadness won't linger long. his memory will hopefully encourage us all to be like him and follow in his footsteps.





















we love you grandad

4 comments:

Kiley said...

Shanna, I love you. My prayers are with you and your family. What a great man he was - and what a legacy he has left each one of you! We love you all!

Jenn said...

Our hearts go out to you and your family. We love you!

blair and maisy said...

I'm so sorry that you lost your grandpa. We love you! Let us know if we can help you in any way. You're in our hearts and prayers.

Erica said...

I loved your post about your grandad...what a truly amazing man. I loved that your mom said that she was "peacefully heartbroken" when Grandpa died and also now when your grandad has died...it sums up losing a loved one perfectly. We love you :o)